Etiquette

Before I write a post with all the gory details of my vacation, I just have to post this one. I am a huge fan of common courtesy. Also common sense. Have you noticed that neither are very common?

Saturday night I hung out a buddy. We have a mutual friend, but this is the first time the two of us have hung out. I went over to his place and we watched Shaun of the Dead. Freaking great movie if you've never seen it. Anyway, when I get there he starts rolling this big old J. Now, he was polite enough to ask if I minded that he smoked it. Hey man, it's your place. Do what you want. However, he never offered it to me.

Now, being the girl who's never even smoked pot, it's not such a big thing. I would have turned it down politely. Each to their own, it's just not my thing. However, shouldn't I at least have had the opportunity to turn it down? Isn't there some unwritten pot code in the world that if you're rolling one with someone else there you at least offer it to the other person? Since I'm not in the pot world, could someone who is familiar with it help a girl out?

Things that make me go hmmmmmmm....